Novelty, what a beautiful name you have. Especially when it comes to bed .
As much as we try to avoid it, we are animals of habit. The dynamics and routine sneak into our sexual life stagnating it.
But to avoid that, for the third time this week, we end up in the ‘missionary’ of always, we can vary the experience a little .
Having a fun intimate life in which surprises are not lacking is something that unites most of us.
According to data from the Control Barometer, 8 out of 10 young Spanish participants in the survey responded that they would like to try new things in bed.
We could blame the pandemic as 63.2% of those surveyed said they had less sex than before.
But the truth is that monotony was already something that existed before Covid-19. And, to combat it, I leave you some ideas:
Change places : both physical and geographic. Dare to leave the classic path and go through other areas that you didn’t even know could be erotic. Force yourself to get out of bed and put that powder on top of the washing machine that you have seen so much in the new Valeria season . Go on a trip and let yourself be carried away on the beach (watch out for onlookers). And if you don’t have a vacation, wait until the early hours of the morning and sneak into the elevator to take one of those rapids – between the fear of being caught and the grace for the discomfort of having sex in a square meter.
Fantasies are to be fulfilled : the heat wave seems the perfect excuse to have the house well aerated and take advantage of the air that runs in places like the terrace and, incidentally, risk being caught by the neighbors. Say what you like, a BDSM session, pool sex, or role-playing games, and plan how to put them into practice. Just thinking about it will heat up the ground for when the time comes.
Take a towel, cream, lots of water and go to a nude beach : there is nothing like freeing yourself from the imposition of clothing to feel more free than ever. Seeing your partner in the same situation, and surrounded by people in a chopped ball, becomes a very exciting experience. Take advantage of the privacy that those rocks give in front of the wild cove to touch him. Without a swimsuit or bikini in between, everything is much closer to hand.
And if nudism doesn’t suit you, do it with clothes . But not with just anyone. Beyond having that urgent fuck where it seems that there is no time to wait to drop your pants or take your panties off your legs, you can turn it into a fetish. A mid-length dress that you have to roll up or open his shirt and use the ends to push him towards you are two good alternatives if you want to add variety.
Get out of the usual postures , those that you tend to repeat because they always work. Improvise. Raise a leg, lower your head, face down in the vertical 69 or Google the list of kamasutra positions and go to one per day. It can be a good way to discover deeper penetrations or to see your partner from another perspective.
Take a really quick one . In record time. Without thinking or thinking about it. Prepare the condom and get to it. Sex produces more desire for sex, so it is a way to ensure that you repeat later (and perhaps even with more time).
Spend a night out . No matter how much you innovate between the sheets, there is something that does not change: your bed is still your bed. Same shape, same headboard, same legs, same orientation … A trip to a hotel, an apartment or even camping is perfect to get out of the familiar environment.
Erotic videos to raise the temperature: each one of you choose a movie that you like. You can see her in company and, as Rigoberta Bandini would say, “let’s see what happens”. It is the perfect occasion for you to look for a video that suits your sexual tastes or to indulge in a fetish. In addition to getting excited watching the video together, why not try putting it into practice in the meantime? It can give you endless ideas.
Masturbate while watching him do the same . I can think of few things as intimate as entwining yourself with the gaze of another person at the moment that you are about to explode with pleasure (or even let yourself be carried away by orgasm without detaching your pupils). The challenge is to become a voyeur and excite you with their image while doing the same with you. It takes a lot of confidence and taking a lot of pressure off yourself – like the way you masturbate that doesn’t quite match what you’ve seen in porn . Once you get it, in addition to a guaranteed climax, you will notice that you are more connected than ever.
Change the time slot : we all have a moment of the day that, for one reason or another, becomes our favorite. It can be as soon as you wake up from a several hour nap or just before going to sleep. The important thing is that you give a turn to the sex clock and look for the occasion when it least seems to fit. Wake up in the middle of the morning to a prize performance of oral sex or set the alarm a little earlier to start the day with a good shot of serotonin. It does not fail.